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Recovering the Love…

Recovering the Love with your Current Partner

There is a difference between love, romance and passion. If the romance is gone but you still love your partner, there’s a lot to try.

  • Determine what kind of relationship you would like to have.
  • Evaluate what you need to add to get to that level.
  • Reflect on how much effort you’re putting into the relationship.
  • Create a win-back plan and each day do something to intensify the romance.
  • Have romantic gestures such as sending flowers, holding hands, spontaneous dates…
  • Talk to a couple’s counselor.

In summary…

  • Become aware of the affective distance between both and the lack of intimacy (not only sexual).
  • Think about what can be the cause of dissatisfaction in the relationship.
  • Take the decision of making a personal change and in the bond.

To that purpose:

  • Develop the communication. Exchange ideas looking for things in common.
  • Ask your partner for what you need without aggressive demands.
  • Pay attention to your partner’s requests. Give and receive.
  • Make room for the reencounter. Outings, just the two of you, trips, walks, routine changes, create shared games and fantasies as well as anything that’s gratifying for both.

Essentially, what the couple needs to renew and recreate itself is:

  • Regain the intimacy.
  • Win back each other.
  • Choose each other again.

Recovering the Love with your Ex Partner

If you’ve just broken up with your ex, there’s a few steps you can follow to get back together:

1) Take your own time
Probably the hardest step of all, nevertheless the most important. The last thing you want to do is give your ex the impression that you’re desperate and dying to get back together. It’ll be really hard to stay away for a while, but a great benefit comes with it, since your ex will begin to realize how much they miss you.
2) Socialize
Start going out with your friends and socialize as much as you can. Staying at home feeling sorry for yourself is the worst thing you can do and all you get from it is increase your depression. If you go out and have fun, not only will it be easier to go through this difficult times, but you’ll show your ex that you have a life of your own.
3) Let your ex come to you
You’ll feel really tempted to text or e-mail your ex partner, but you have to be strong, at least for a few days. By letting your is be the one who contacts you, you’ll be on the right path to get back together.
4) Keep in touch
Once your ex has contacted you again, what you have to do is keep in touch. Don’t beg or act desperately, just keep calm. If you start calling everyday, all you’ll do is scare them away, so you just have to keep a normal contact so you can apply a more elaborate strategy to win their love back.

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